Ho Plaza ‘Kiss-In’ Raises Visibility for LGBTQ Community
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Members of Cornell’s Direct Action to Stop Heterosexism gathered on Ho Plaza Friday for a “Kiss-In” to increase visibility for LGBTQ affection around Valentine’s Day. About 30 people participated in the event in which, participants pointed out, kissing was not the only option.
Kiss and tell: Xiana Garcia Friere ’13 and Rosa Mato Amboage ’11 share a kiss on Ho Plaza Friday.
“I was there and I hugged someone,” said Matt Danzer ’12, the LGBTQ representative for the Student Assembly. “I think it was a great event. It showed that this campus really does have a wide range of different orientations on campus. We really do have a diverse community here and it was great to see a good number of people turn out for that sort of event.”
Trey Ramsey ’12, president of DASH, said the group wanted to bring attention to LGBTQ couples in the Cornell community around Valentine’s Day.
“I feel Cornell is a pretty safe and open place, and perhaps sheltered in some ways. I’m not sure if people are always aware of how difficult things may be outside of the University,” Ramsey said. “Sometimes within the University there will be occasionally open homophobia, but often heterosexism. For example: assuming someone is straight. I feel that’s relatively common.”
Ramsey noted that “especially around Valentine’s Day, when so many of the advertisements are marketed to heterosexual couples, [the kiss-in is] just a small way to remind people of [the presence of LGBTQ couples].”
DASH, which organized the kiss-in, works toward “eliminating oppression on the basis of sexual orientation, gender identity, and gender expression,” according to its website. “Most pressingly, we seek to create LGBTQ communities on campus that do not reproduce the same systems of oppression that currently exist in the larger Cornell community and in our respective social and cultural groups,” the website states.
Previous DASH events have included a candlelight vigil to remember transgendered individuals who lost their lives because of gender identity and expression issues, a rally for the Day of Silence and a speaker who came to campus to discuss the American military’s policy of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.”
Ramsey, DASH’s president, joined the organization last year to start making changes.
“I’ve been interested in heterosexism and LGBT rights for a while, and I wanted to do something constructive,” he said.
“I’m in DASH, the on-campus peer group to fight heterosexism,” Sarah Gurney ’10, who attended the kiss-in, said. “This is a visibility event. Not everybody on campus is heterosexual on Valentine’s Day. There is a mixture of people here.”
The event was a “nice way to raise awareness in people who live in this community,” Rosa Mato ’11 said. “It’s important for the community to show how many people are in support of the gay community.”
After people kissed and hugged, they began to disperse.
The kiss-in dissolved quietly on a crowded Ho Plaza Friday.

Reader Discussion (3 comments)
Glen (not verified) says:
I don't understand why homosexuals are so insecure that they need to justify their lifestyles to the entire Cornell campus. The campaign against Heterosexism is simply ridiculous. Like most people here, I do not care how many gays we see kissing and holding hands....its not going to change our minds. We know you're here!
Now look, I don't care if you are a LGBTQ person. You are free to do whatever you want. But stop shoving it down my throat. Your "kiss in" make you seem extremely insecure. I will NEVER accept your lifestyle. According to earlier versions of the DSM you are mentally ill. I believe that. I am not going to accept you as normal. No way. No how.
That being said I will pray that you seek the help you need. Ganette should have held a free menatal heath day on the 14th for all the LGBTQ people. cata
My thoughts are with you in your struggles.
Catherine (not verified) says:
If seeing a few gay couples made you feel uncomfortable, can you even imagine how a gay person may feel in an environment that is almost exclusively heterosexual? I believe the point of this event was simply to be inclusive and remind the Cornell community that there are LGBTQ people on campus (particularly during a holiday that is overwhelmingly directed at heterosexual people). I too saw the few gay couples and their kisses and hugs were nothing more explicit than you typically see among discrete straight couples in public.
What you view as insecurity, I see as an attempt to express oneself freely regardless of sexuality. Even though you claim that you don't care if someone is gay, your claims that gay people are abnormal and mentally ill imply that you actually have quite a problem with it. Perhaps you should stop by Haven, the LGBTQ resource center, or Gannett to talk about sexuality and gender identity. Some nonjudgmental exposure to the queer community may help you broaden your views and become truly accepting.
Anony (not verified) says:
Why does it always depend on which side of the fence you're arguing from? I'm sure such a campaign for heterosexism would meet with a lot of criticism on campus.
As a heterosexual female, I don't quite understand the purpose of such events. I'm really not trying to be rude, but to understand. I would imagine it is to create networks for LGBTQ individuals on campus to get together, meet each other, and form relationships/connections based on similar ideals/values/sexual preferences.
I have a number of homosexual friends, both male and female. I know you're here! I like you! I accept you. I think you're amazing. You're strong. I think many, many people, if not most, on this campus are aware of your presence and important to the community.
But I just don't want to see PDA on Ho Plaza, regardless of the genders of the couples involved.